Extraordinary Ideas for Ordinary Families
I’ve started a new full time job as a High School teacher! It is a mental, physical and social work out! I am creating curriculum for the Family and Consumer Sciences Classes, I am overseeing the student council and all the activities, and crazily enough I am also in charge of the yearbook. Honestly, I …
If you’re new around here, you may not know how much we LOVE books!!! Big books, small books, picture books, graphic novels, give us all the books! Well, let me restate that. Give us all the GOOD books! We go to the library once or twice a week and usually get 30-50 books, depending on …
The school year has started. I am teaching 4 new classes to High Schoolers, which means consistently striving to develop and deliver powerful curriculum for young minds. It is a hard fought battle to stay a couple steps ahead, and yet in some ways amazing to prepare all of the wonderful topics! While preparing, I …
We have had a particularly wet summer around here with plenty of warm thunder storms! It’s hasn’t always been awesome, as we were visited by a tornado–not the type of visit one looks forward to, but exciting nonetheless! As we’ve been in a drought, mostly the rain has been welcome, except for when my kids …
As July comes to a close, people are busily buying school supplies and looking at the school year ahead. Regardless of how we feel about the upcoming school year–if we view it with excitement or dread–there are a few things that we can do to help our family have a successful year!! Here are 3 …
Everyone has people in their life who are hard. It’s definitely part of the learning curve of life. There are people who are onery, argumentative, rude or dismissive and more. Some days we are in the right frame of mind, to just let it roll off of us, but some days we want to retaliate …
This is just a friendly reminder that we can make a difference in the lives of other people. Even if we feel like they’ve got really complicated things going on in their lives. Even if WE’VE got really complicated things going on in our lives. Even if we don’t feel appropriately equipped. Even if we …
This smoothie has protein, carbohydrates and chia seeds! It is delicious and packs a nutritional punch! Plus is comes together in just a few minutes!
A little over a week ago a tornado ripped through my city. Now, I’m from California and am used to earthquakes, fires, and droughts, so when I hear people talk about tornados, I think of that movie “Twister” and the absolute destruction that was left in the wake of each of those storms. Apparently the …
“Summa summa summa time!!” All the kids are home and getting along and cleaning up after themselves and choosing kindness all day!!! HAhahahhahahaha! I mean, maybe that’s what your house looks like, our house, however, is just doing its best to hold it together! Don’t get me wrong, my kids are friends, and we have …
Family Night is one of the best traditions to have for creating a feeling of togetherness, coordinating your activity calendar and overall connecting in your family! If you want to start this beautiful connection there are details here. This idea packs a powerful punch for creating a feeling of a team! Ideally, you are prepared …
Summertime means homemade ice cream!! Memorial Day, Fourth of July, really any hot day means it’s time for a cold treat! We love this easy recipe for the fact that we almost always have these ingredients on hand! The only real prep we need is to stick the ice cream mixer bowl in the freezer …
We have shared plenty of amazing book lists with you all! For Early Elementary School kids, high school kids, picture books read alouds and etc! Now I am going to share some of our favorite series to read aloud to your kids! The summertime is such a great time to start a new series with …
Throughout the school year my children bring home papers of work that they have done. Completed tests, art, busy work–you know what I’m talking about. I do not like keeping all of this paperwork, but often when my kids first bring these things home, they feel pretty attached to them. They remember the time they …
My oldest daughter just had a birthday and that chick LOVES to bake! My husband found this fun book for her! She has used it several times and has been sharing the cookies with friends and family. While we end up using a little more flour and sugar than normal, it has been such a …
I thought perhaps I was the only one who hadn’t heard of a golden birthday! Afterall, mine would have been a couple decades ago on the 9th, and I’m pretty sure the label had not yet been invented! Our youngest just turned 17 on the 17th! Turns out that is a golden birthday when your …
The school year is coming to a close and we are in planning and prep mode. There are orchestra concerts, piano recitals, final projects, and big tests in the next few weeks. Do you feel it? Because I can! I feel my kids antsy anticipation for the summer that is juuuuussssst out of reach. I …
When my youngest daughter Tali was three she was the most cheerful and optimistic little human. She often said “Wow, I am good at this!” and she meant it! I was charmed by her unabashed confidence and innocent positivity. I often giggled at her boldness in her self admiration, hoping that life would not quash …
The school year is quickly heading toward its close and I have a 5th grader. If you don’t know what that means, then let me tell you, the puberty and sex talks are a-coming! I have shared about how we introduce the the idea of sex and procreation with pumpkins. I have also shared about …
I like to find the perfect gift! However, I think I’ve only hit the target a rare few times in my life. 🙂 These handprint cards hit the target in many ways! Not only is it a little bit of sweetness, it also is a fun keepsake! These darling cards will be the perfect choice …
Today is Good Friday. I have always felt fascinated with why this day is labeled “good.” It is, after all, commemorating the day Jesus Christ was crucified on the cross. When I was growing up I feel like there wasn’t a lot of emphasis on Good Friday in my faith tradition. I’d hear my friends …
General Conference is upon us, and that means our church listens to a broadcast in which we are enriched and uplifted by the word of God!! It’s a great weekend…and can also feel long for the littles!! So we do our best to make it special for our kids! Here are 5 ways that we …
My oldest is almost 15, and I can remember having a flip phone when he was a baby. I remember not wanting a smartphone for a long time, and then finally caving when it became more difficult to find a decent phone with a good camera that was not a smartphone. Once I did, it …
I have 6 kids from the age of 4-14. That equals a lot of STUFF. I hate stuff. Just the stuff that clutters and gets in the way of everything. It’s stuff that makes our house look messy, our rooms disorganized, and our lives more chaotic. I am not awesome at organizing things, but have …
You know the old adage, “Practice makes perfect!” Well, I call false advertising! Sometimes we practice something and never attain the ever-elusive “perfect!” My children have all had various piano and orchestra concerts this week in addition to their other sports and don’t even get me started on the class pictures that my elementary school …
What do you have to look forward to this year? I love the anticipation of something fun! I can wade through a mountain of laundry, weedy yard work, crabby people and challenges, when I have a happy trip or activity planned! The anticipation of fun can be joyful in itself! Truthfully, I do enjoy my …
A few years ago, I was thumbing through a small stack of photographs, when I happened upon a small yellow post-it note. I gasped, I couldn’t help myself. On the note was written only one word, my name. Seeing my name was only a tiny part of the significance, my name was written in the …
I am feeling the impending presence of another teen in my house! Haha, not a bad thing, I love teens!! But my 2nd oldest is turning 13 in two short months and I am doing my best to keep the lines of communication open with her, and her older brother. So far, here’s what I’ve …
This month we decided to institute Friendly February, and I just have to say, that I’ve loved how my kids have really done their best to do it! It’s essentially just another variation of secret somethings, but doing little acts of service for those outside of our home, and inside of our home, and they …
If you haven’t yet read Atomic Habits–you totally should! It really puts into perspective what we can accomplish just by small, seemingly insignificant choices. I shared a part of the book with my kids, the part where the author speaks of a woman who lost 100 pounds just by asking herself, “What would a healthy …
Have you had an Amaryllis bulb before? I highly recommend the experience! You don’t need any gardening expertise. You simply need to add a little water occasionally and watch this amazing plant bloom. These massive bulbs are available in the month of December and often come in a little pot with dirt, making this incredibly …
My 5 older kids are in school during the day. My youngest is 4. He’s in joy school one day a week. He is my buddy on all of the errands I have during the day. He goes with me a couple of times a week to teach Spanish. He does the laundry with me …
Anyone sitting on the fence about the importance of romance, this post is for you. The Gottman’s are a powerhouse therapist couple who have studied all aspects of love, including it’s demise. One of their instructions for being an enduring happy couple is to do “small things often.” Meaning consistent small acts of kindness, compliments, …
Valentine’s Day is coming up, and truth be told, I am not a fan. I don’t like the whole expectation of some chocolate and roses and cards and whatever they are trying to sell you or me, or our kids. I know some people love it, and more power to them! For me, it can …
Here’s that tricky week again! This is the week that apparently most people give up on their New Year’s resolutions. All those exciting ideas sadly abandoned. All of those treadmills gathering dust. Are you still hanging on? We are innately drawn to improve! When we see something we like, we yearn to learn it or …
We are big readers around here!! We’ve read good books, funny books, boring books, inspiring books, and just ok books. Really, I love a good book! Just ask my husband. If I go to a bookstore for any reason he knows not to expect me for a few hours. Did you know that reading a …
January is known as the month of new beginnings. The stores fill with exercise equipment hoping to entice you into an impulse purchase after the indulgent holidays. January is also known as the most depressing month! Yikes! Apparently, something about the holiday being over, bills coming due, and the cold tends to take a toll …
In one of the recreation centers in our hometown, there are a set of rock climbing walls. Over the past couple of weeks that my kids have been off of school, we’ve gone to climb there. It’s super lowkey, it has 5 walls with varying levels of difficulty. Over the course of the last couple …
The year is rapidly coming to an end and that means it’s time to start a family memory jar!! Every year I get a glass jar with a lid, write the upcoming year’s date on it–in this case 2023, and stick it somewhere in my kitchen where everyone can see it. I put either a …
Easy and delicious Zebra Popcorn created in your kitchen! It makes a great gift for piano teachers, soccer coaches and etc!
Growing up, every year my family went Christmas caroling! My mom would make these beautiful bread wreaths drizzled with icing, we’d plate them and head out the door in 2 different cars (as there were 11 of us!) We’d each get to choose 1 person to sing to. We would usually choose a good friend, …
Each year we write everyone’s name on a small piece of paper, stick it in a bowl, and have everyone individually choose a name. You know how it goes, they are each in charge of gifting something to that sibling for Christmas. I love this tradition as it gives my kids the opportunity to think …
This week we are hiding notes of gratitude around our neighborhood!! Each of my kids has 2 notes that we are going to hide on a neighbor’s porch, car, tape to the garage or front door!! Anything from, “I love the color of your house, thanks for making our street look nice,” to, “I really …
Ok, give me a minute to explain! A couple of weeks ago on a Sunday I asked my kids if they wanted to drive up to a pretty park and see if we could check out the bison that are up there on a farm. (Is that even right?? Are there such things as bison …
I just returned from a pretty amazing adventure to Cancun and Cozumel with my husband. It is currently mid school semester and a slice of “you only live once” got into us! When we returned, we had to dramatically sprint to catch up on everything! However, it was worth it! Sometimes you gotta just run …
When our oldest son was a baby I didn’t know what to do about Santa. Did you even know there was anything to do about Santa? I felt it. Do we teach him about Santa? Do we not? What’s the focus we wanted in our home for Christmas? Maybe you’ve had a similar dilemma. We …
You will always be in charge of your mood! So pick a good one!
Every year in November, we make a gratitude tree! This year we’re moving our tree from the hallway to the front door! I have a little basket with some sharpies, construction paper leaves, and painter’s tape–so it doesn’t take off the paint! We’ve made a little sign: Whenever we get a visitor, planned or otherwise, …
It will totally be Halloween in two shakes of a lambs tail–do you know how often lambs shake their tail, because I do not. Let’s try something more season-appropriate–in two flaps of a bats’ wings, and I am headed into my kids’ elementary school classrooms next week to read some fun books! I realized that …
When people hear that I have 6 kids, invariably they’ll say, “I don’t know how you do it!” To which I most often respond, “Welp, sometimes I don’t!” Hear me out. I have lofty goals of a beautiful home, pristinely decorated and children all put together from their haircuts right down to their manicured fingernails. …
It’s coming! That big holiday that brings lots of family time, but also a fair amount of stress! Here are a few ideas to plan ahead and relieve some of the stress before it starts! If you are up for considering a few things ahead of time, here are some small gift ideas, perfect for …
The last few months one of my kids has been stuck in negative mode. This kid has been more argumentative and difficult than ever before. I have read so many articles, listened to parenting podcasts, and spoken with several friends to try and figure out how to help this kid that I absolutely adore, but …
Well, you might have made our Energy Bites, and just for fun we wanted to adjust them to a Fall Flavor. However, let me tell you how cool it is to incorporate pumpkin, which is a nutritional knockout! It is loaded with Vitamin A, C, Potassium and lots of other goodness. If you are able …
One day I was up in my bedroom when I heard my 3 year old call from the bathroom, “Will somebody come wipe my bum??” I stood up to answer his call when I found my 14 year old standing outside of the bathroom also about to help out. He looked up at me and …
I grew up in a family with 9 children! It was chaotic, loud and wonderful. Most of us shared one bathroom with only one sink! We actually sat down to dinner together the majority of evenings. Our home life was boisterous, full of life and brimming with lots of personality! We learned manners, to do …
Last night my 14 year old was working on an assignment from class. He was to write a poem about what it would be like being old, or how he pictured being old. With permission, I’m sharing it here: dawn, a burst of color. creaky joints rise from the bed. tiptoe from the room to …
Need a quick idea for dinner tonight? Here are 5 quick to come together dinner ideas starting with some chicken! Yum!
At the beginning of this year we decided that we had enough stuff in our home. Don’t get me wrong, I would love a new couch and comforter and kitchen–HA! But we don’t need more toys, clothes (just wait a minute. One of them will sneeze and outgrow them!) and etc. We are incredibly blessed …
One of the most effective cleaning tools you can have in your tool belt is NOT a particular cleanser, it is a timer! The 10 minute tidy can be executed by all ages and quickly spruce up a family room, a game room or a bedroom! Even when people have homework or any other pressing …
School is in full swing and I don’t see 5 of my kids as much as I used to. I miss them!! Don’t get me wrong, I’m plenty busy during the day, but I’ve noticed that between school, sports, and music lessons I am feeling a disconnect with them. I have been trying to bridge …
Members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (sometimes known as Mormon) have a unique opportunity to serve a mission! Boys when they turn eighteen year old, who are are in good health and living the high morals of Christ’s gospel can serve for two years. Girls at the age of 19, …
I recently read a story about a teen boy on a bus that noticed a teen girl on the bus when she got up and had blood on the back of her pants. The boy got up and offered her his sweatshirt. She refused and he insisted, saying that he had a sister and understood. …
Running a family smoothly is not easy! There are a million ways that life comes in and derails effective routines. Setting up a few weekly practices that your family truly does, makes a huge difference when creating a family culture! One of our favorites is: Family Night!
We listen to Kidz Bop in my car a lot. If you’re unfamiliar with Kidz Bop, it’s a group of kids singing popular songs and omitting language or some innuendo from the lyrics, also the occasional Disney song. My younger kids love it, my older kids are probably getting tired of it, so I mix …
What to expect from the Home MTC! Make it powerful!
June is pride month–maybe you knew that before June, but I did not. In fact, I planned a whole vacation to Washington DC and New York at the end of June without having realized that it was pride month. We spent 4 days in DC and then took a train to New York, which was …
Are you wondering if you should encourage your child to participate in 5th grade band? Have you considered learning a string instrument no matter what your age? What does learning music do for humans?
Amazing things it turns out!
Stores are all abuzz with back to school excitement! From Kindies to college students everyone is preparing for the school year ahead! Every year I totally mourn the end of summer! Don’t get me wrong, I love a schedule and order in my day, but there is just something about packing up all my kids …
We are headed on a road trip soon to meet up for a family reunion!! We are excited to play with family, but know that a long road trip is a lot of work with 6 kids–or 1 ha!! Here are 5 ways that we make the trip better for everyone that do not involve …
If you are fortunate, you live close to some of your favorite people! But many of us have miles between family members as well as life obligations such as work & school that makes getting together rather complicated. Here are amazing reasons why you should make a consistent family reunion a priority! A True Sense …
Last week we met up with some friends and took all of our kids to the pool. We stayed for hours just swimming and enjoying the summer sun. At our recreation center we had come into the indoor pool to use the diving board. Our 5 year old was having so much fun jumping and …
Have you ever heard the saying “Blessed are the flexible for they shall not be bent out of shape?” I actually say this to myself sometimes. (I’m sure I’ve mentioned it here!) It reminds me that while I rarely do the splits these days, I can still go with the flow in a difficult situation. …
I would love to say that I’m a planner. In my head I make plans all the time. I can plan for things a long way in advance as well, but mostly, I am flying by the seat of my pants. I can plan vacations and trips just fine, but some of our best days …
We just came back from an awesome family vacation! We went to Washington DC and New York and explored all the significant monuments and landmarks that we could fit in during the week that we were away. Vacations are so great for a recharge and different pace for you and your kids–but that’s not this …
A tale of lifelong friends and how God made it all possible.
I’ve mentioned before that my oldest has run in track and cross country. Well, his younger sister is running cross country with him this summer. It’s been good for them to have this common interest and the goal of improving. My son has definitely gotten comfortable at the pace that he’s chosen. It’s easy for …
Here it comes! The day to celebrate the Dad in your life! Let’s make it great! 🙂 Have you ever wandered the stores looking for the perfect gift? Or perused the internet for hours only to come up with something cheesy and subpar? Yikes! I have done this too many times and I can’t say …
My kids are already out of the habit of doing school work all day. All it took was a week and a half of summer, and just like that any amount of writing feels like a chore!! I have been having each of them complete one academic thing a day. Some days that’s just reading …
It’s summer and kids have more time on their hands. This is amazing if you have a plan to help them learn something. If not, your backup plan may be trying to keep them engaged in something more than a perpetual screen in front of their face. (Not fun for parent or child!) Let’s be …
Just a couple of weeks ago, my 13 year old 8th grader was asked to write a commentary for class. He chose to write it on phones. When he was in 6th grade I asked him how many of his classmates had phones, he said not quite half. That percentage went up a lot in …
We are a family of swimmers, and have spent many hours at swim meets over the course of years. After your swimmer competes in their heat, they often need to refuel! We bring fresh grapes, apples, carrots, mini peppers and the like. However, we have discovered these Energy Bites go a long way to restore …
My maiden name is Green. Kayleen Green–what a great name! My husband and I got married in California and had our honeymoon in San Diego. We moved to Utah right after as I had 1 year left of school up there. After we moved I went to go get my name changed at the Social …
Have you had a good coach before? Not just one that motivated you, but that made you want to be your very best? We have had a coach like that and it made all the difference. With four of my five kids in soccer for several years, I got the chance to meet and work …
The end of the school year feels like a crazy sprint! Well, that’s not true. It feels more like a mad dash here, a desperate lunge there, and maybe a frantic face block thrown in there as well. Overall, my kids are pretty good about keeping their heads clear when a lot is required of …
My family is pretty excited about ice cream! We make a LOT of good desserts around here, and they all manage to get eaten, but ice cream still commands a high spot for the dessert of choice. I myself love berries and chocolate, I think there can’t be anything better, but I still buy ice …
Some people say that if you want to know what your talents are ask the people closest to you and they can help you find out. While I think there is truth to that, I think sometimes the people closest to us can also be our worst critics and might end up influencing us to …
Have you ever seen those young men with suits and name tags? There are also young women! Often they are on bikes diligently wearing safety helmets, or walking and smiling at everyone. You may see them working in someone’s yard, or helping out at a community event. They are clean cut, young and willing to …
I had 6 kids in 10 years. That is a lot of diapers, nursing, late nights, pregnancy sickness, messes to clean up, lessons to teach, and bums to wipe. It has also been a lot of uncontrollable giggles, first smiles, learning how to walk then run, learning the joy of sibling love, and random tackling …
I love my family! I love my siblings from the family of my youth and I adore my kids and husband. A strong family doesn’t just “happen.” It certainly takes daily effort of prioritizing people and good habits that make a family cohesive and loving. It is beautiful and sometimes tricky, but always worthwhile. Not …
4 of my 6 kids are playing soccer this season. This last weekend, each of them scored a goal in their respective games. Immediately following their goals I noticed a drastic increase in their energy and enthusiasm. They ran harder, went after the ball for longer, and were more determined than they had been at …
I love Cadbury Chocolate Eggs, they are deliciousness. Right?!? That fragile candy shell that gives way to melty chocolate that is just big enough to savor for a moment. Yep! That’s a happy invention! My kids look forward to finding those in their Easter Eggs every year. However, while that is a happy tradition in …
Over the last couple of weeks my 3 year old has been saying in a grumpy tone, “Today is not my birthday.” I then find myself responding with, “Nope, not today, but didn’t we have so much fun on your birthday,” or “That is true, it is not, but somebody else’s birthday is coming up, …
Wait until you try this! Seriously delicious and so EASY to make. We are a family who strives to have dinner together every night. I work diligently to feed my little group nutritious meals, but sometimes I get burned out on the cooking. However this dish is uncomplicated, and comes out of the oven beautifully …
In our home, the night before a birthday, usually sometime right before bed, one of us yells, “Time to hug the birthday kid one last time!!!” We then all pile on top of that person and shower them with love. I usually linger for a little longer than the rest, savoring the moment before my …
Yesterday, a massive wind blew through our city. It was rather unusual and certainly fierce, but it was ushering in a storm, so perhaps it was expected. However, I stopped in surprise and stared as the gale whipped through our backyard, depositing leaves, palm fronds and debris in our pool and all over the backyard. …
When I was 11 or 12 years old, my dad signed me up for a volleyball league. I had played soccer for years and loved it. I’d also played basketball and really enjoyed it, so when he asked me if I wanted to give volleyball a try, I agreed. I had every confidence that I …
Alright, let’s talk about money. I mean, everyone else is, so let’s just dive right in the fray. Gas prices are CRAZY and food prices are increasing and I’m trying to buy airplane tickets right now and I can’t even talk about how expensive that will be–ahhh!! Do you feel your blood pressure going up? …
If you are looking for a nice wholesome pick me up in your family, then you have come to the right place! In our families we often emotionally bump into each other during stressful times (i.e. when people are in a hurry or late, when big school or work projects are due, when sickness is …
When one of my sons was in kindergarten I remember suggesting to him that he hold the door open for the girl behind him and let her go first. He immediately balked at the idea. Why would he let her go first? I told him that it would be a nice gesture. He didn’t like …
Ohhhhh you are going to love these! Cinnamon Rolls around here are a huge favorite. They are pretty much my husband’s favorite indulgence, so he is often the one to make these! Plus cinnamon rolls are a perfectly joyful birthday breakfast or a wonderful treat to share with a neighbor. Over the years we have …
Did you know when President Ronald Reagan wanted to give up smoking his pipe, he realized he couldn’t just give up something! He had to purposely replace it with something else. He learned that not reaching for a pipe, left him craving that familiar habit, so he needed to put something in it’s place. He …
Remember how last year we shared a list of our favorite read aloud picture books?? Well, there’s more where that came from!! We are always on the look out for great books and are so happy when we find a winner! A picture book can pack a big punch of laughter, shock, or reflection! I …
My sister Kayleen and I both have homes full of people who LOVE books! So when I mentioned to my nearly 16 year old daughter and nearly 18 year old son that I wanted to compile a list of books for teenagers, I thought maybe we would create a list of 10 or 12, but …
“I am speed. One winner, 42 losers. I eat losers for breakfast.” We all smiled at Lightening McQueen’s pre-race pep talk. Who knew that it is actually the same thing we do before our own races, sporting events, musical performances, or tests. Often before setting out to do something we already have decided how it …
Years ago, I was riding a scooter with my 4 year old daughter. We were enjoying the wind on our face the coolness of the afternoon and the overall joy of a scooter ride. It was delightful! Soon, a young boy of about seven years old from the neighborhood caught up with us on his …
Hi! I’m a guest writer today at Sharing Secret Somethings! My mom asked if I could share a few things that I have enjoyed about writing letters to people. I’ve always enjoyed writing and receiving notes! Sometimes I write notes and hide them on the pillows of my sibling’s beds so that before bed they …
There is a tiny little shop in the ski town of Breckenridge, Colorado that serves scrumptious warm crepes. A number of my extended family and I stood shivering outside in the 30+ minute line surrounded by snow being assured by others it was all worth it. We paid about $12 each to have one of …
Okay cute Mama! I see you there trying to balance all the things! Trying to nurture your children, trying to keep your house decently clean and striving to feed the humans in your home nourishing foods. Let’s not forget trying to look your best, or at least presentable….ok maybe just not dead! 🙂 Or perhaps …
One year while looking for a special gift for one of my children for a birthday I found a cute gift box. That little box totally sparked the idea of making a special keepsake box for my people. I got some large letter stickers and got to work. I cut the letters out to arrange …
When I make this granola, I seriously have to hide a small container of it, or else my kids will eat it all before I have the chance to have a bowl for breakfast! It has delightfully wholesome ingredients and is AMAZING served sprinkled with fresh berries…like blueberries, raspberries, blackberries or sliced strawberries. (Yum!) Besides …
Every year we plant a garden. Well, every year we try to plant a garden. My mom was the ultimate green thumb and I will never pretend that I am as cool as she was with plants, but I can get the job done in a pinch! One Spring, about 5 years ago, we decided …
Have you made some stellar memories with your loved ones lately? Any hikes or fun weekend trips? If not perhaps you are due for some fun! 😉 Any way you choose to have fun, let me share with you how I step it up a notch so that the happiness lasts! This last holiday season, …
It’s a new year and, in our family, that means we start thinking about birthdays for our kids! We usually have friend birthday parties every other year for our people, but I have been decluttering my house a lot the last couple of months. My basement has had so many toys, most of which are …
I am the youngest of 9 kids. My parents were great! They worked hard to provide for us the things that we needed and raised us to serve others and contribute. By the time I came around, however, I think a couple of things were forgotten about, or just not thought of. Nothing huge, just …
A lot apparently! Four months ago, I downloaded an app to my phone, to brush up my Spanish skills and also to learn French. I use the app for around 5-20 minutes each day. I think it’s safe to say I may average around 12 minutes a day. Now, four months down the road, I …
Every year I set goals for myself. Sometimes I do it in April, sometimes I do it in August, but always I will set at least one in January. So, naturally, after Christmas, I begin to brainstorm on the things that I would like to change in myself or my home. I don’t know if …
Today is the day!!! You know the one, the day right before THE day. The day in which everyone is buzzing with excitement and anticipation. This day, in truth, is my absolute favorite. I love the unity that we feel in our home. I love the service that we seek to give. I love that …
As promised last week, here is the recipe for Avalanche bars!! Cue applause and raucous cheering!! The first time I saw these I thought they were Rice Krispie treats. I like Rice Krispie treats just ok, so I wasn’t particularly excited about them. Upon taking a bite, I realized my mistake and looked again at …
I don’t know about you, but around here it takes weeks to prepare for Christmas Day. Often times I’ll purchase things when I see them on sale in October in anticipation for it. With 6 kids, it’s always good to spread out the cost. In our home we usually buy 1 bigger gift, stocking fun, …
If you didn’t already know, we LOVE books around here!! And every Christmas holiday season for the last few years we host a hot chocolate and favorite holiday book night!! My kids each invite 1 friend over and everyone wears pajamas (that may in fact be my favorite part 😉 )! Blankets and stuffed animals …
Looking for a way to think outward this Christmas? Check out this idea we stumbled upon when buying additional gifts seemed to tip the scale!
Thanksgiving is right around the corner and that means PIE!!! We love pie around here and whether we make the dough from scratch or buy it at the store, we always have a little extra. Here are some fun (and delicious) ways to use it!! 1- Apple Nachos!!! This is a fun and healthy(ish) snack/appetizer/dessert …
Welcome to pure deliciousness! I make this fantastic concoction every Thanksgiving to joyful acclaim and many happy sighs. In fact, when my children are asked what they need to have in order for it to feel like Thanksgiving, they will always say “Chocolate Cheesecake!” It is definitely part of a scrumptious tradition! If you don’t …
Not sure what to get someone this Christmas? Try a memory book!! We have shared these fun photobooks that I make for my husband for Father’s Day. Which, really, could be given for Christmas as well! But some of our absolute favorite presents to both receive and give, are photo books! What kind of photobooks? …
In this photo you see my sons at ages 10 & 17, then again seven years later at 17 & 23! I love how in the first picture my younger son is stretching up to try to reach the height of his older brother. Now the younger brother is at least 4 inches taller! All …
We have had a busy week and this morning I came downstairs to find a couple of my kids just sitting around instead of eating breakfast. All my kids have jobs to do before school. Making beds, practicing instruments, reading, emptying the dishwasher, and etc. They all know their individual responsibilities, but sometimes we’re a …
No one seems to travel through life without getting a few bumps and bruises, or maybe even a gash. Often these marks and scars happen by interaction with our fellow humans. However, the people who can set down the inevitable grievances and difficulties are the ones who tend to be the most balanced and happy. …
Can you feel it? We’re heading into the holiday season at full speed! It’s the time of year where we eat too much candy, too much turkey, then too many Christmas cookies! HA!! The season of excess is upon us and it’s the perfect time to remind our kids (and ourselves) to give!! Teach them …
Gift giving can be amazing if you have an amazing idea, but lots of times we end up walking around the store or perusing the internet for some kind of clever inspiration. Big Sigh here! I do NOT love this struggle of trying to find the perfect gift! Worst of all, sometimes we simply end …
We’ve talked about secret somethings. We’ve talked about service bingo Now it’s time to talk about one of our favorite things to do as a family–random acts of kindness!!! Did you know that one of the BEST antidotes to selfishness is service!?! Focusing on the needs of others instead of our own is just the …
Okay friends, here are some of our favorite games we love to play with a deck of cards! That means these games can easily go on the road with you to swim meets, dance competitions and vacation! And of course we just love playing them gathered around our own dining room table! So many fun …
We love Halloween around here! It is the time of year that we get to dress up for no reason and nobody looks at us sideways! 🙂 Well, mostly! My kids can be found wearing any number of costumes with me on any random day while we’re at the grocery store, but even more so …
Need some ideas to consider for Halloween this year? Perhaps you are trying to convince a reluctant kiddo that there is still fun to be had! We have some fun & easy ideas for you! Happily the kind you can pull together quickly! If you have a t-shirt and sharpies (or fabric markers of course) …
We have been crazy busy this season with extracurriculars! It could be that the lack of outside activities during the height of the pandemic has made the return to those activities feel so much more busy. I have 4 kids in soccer and 4 in different running clubs and 3 in piano and…you get it. …
We LOVE games! They are an easy way to interact with some of our favorite people or a great way to get to know new neighbors and friends. We played games together before the pandemic of Covid affected the world, but during it we played a game or two almost every day! It has taken …
One day at the grocery store as I stood in line watching the cashier ring up my food, the bagger–an older gentlemen looked at my 10 year old daughter and asked, “What’s the most interesting thing you learned in school today?” After initially being caught off-guard she then thoughtfully began to answer, mentioning some things …
I absolutely love Halloween!! It is the time of year that I can dress up with my kids and no one will look at me sideways ;), HA! But really, it is when imaginations run wild and my kids all get excited for the various decorations that we put up!! They love it all, but …
Delicious and crowd pleasing grilled chicken and vegetable shish kabobs! Simple to prepare and scrumptious to eat!
When my oldest was younger a friend recommended a book that had a big impact on the way I’d remind my kids to be kind. It’s called “Have you Filled a Bucket Today?” The premise of the book is that we all have buckets. When we do something kind for someone else, it helps fill …
I get that the subject of pumpkin flavored things in the Fall is polarizing. I am here to say that I am 100% team pumpkin. There are few flavor combinations that I love more than pumpkin and chocolate and these muffins are just that! I have eaten many a pumpkin muffin in my day, but …
When was the last time you played Bingo!?! Yeah, I didn’t remember either! HA! At church this past week we made Bingo sheets and passed them out for everyone to try and serve other people a little more. It has been AWESOME!! My kids have been excitedly checking out what acts of service they want …
Easy and super delicious strawberry jam. It is pretty much a staple around our home. This sweet and tangy mixture goes amazingly on toast, waffles, PB&J, scones and of course fresh bread! I would like to say we love it because it is amazingly healthy, but truthfully, it is simply because it tastes like fresh …
Did you know that sharing family stories with your kids helps them build confidence and develop a stronger sense of self? When kids hear stories from their parents and grandparents about difficulties they’ve faced and have overcome, it reinforces their sense of determination and confidence. They are better able to conquer their own challenges! How …
Changing the décor in your main rooms can add to the excitement of the everyday! Hooray 🙂 Switching life up in anticipation of Halloween Costumes and family gathering is a wonderful reason to celebrate. Today it is still hot where I am! It is still summer, but we are beginning to take a peek at …
How many dishes have you washed in your life? I think I have perhaps washed one million dishes, maybe 1.2 million. It feels like a mountain! Seriously! And while I prefer to leave my kitchen clean at night, so it greets me that same way in the morning, there always seems to be dishes to …
Once upon a time when I only had a couple of kids, I started saying, “Goodnight, Sweet dreams, I love you,” at bedtime. We lived in a 2 bedroom duplex before moving to our current home. I’d stand at the door as I slowly closed it and would repeat that phrase several times before the …
You are in for an amazing treat! This cake is intensely scrumptious and a crowd pleaser! I have been making a version of this wonderful chocolate deliciousness for years, but I think this new twist really knocks it out of the park! You are going to love it! I have a couple of brothers who …
If you haven’t yet tried out this roll recipe, you really need to! It is delicious and crazy simple! I make them about once a week. I often triple this recipe so that I can share some with a neighbor or friend that needs some home baked bread in their life–I mean, really, don’t we …
Having five children has been illuminating for talent discovery. Each child is beautifully unique and brings their own quirky personalities to the table. This is true in your family too right? Mix those personalities with the aptitudes and certainly limitations of the parents and before you know it, talents begin to blossom. Both my husband …
There is a short video on YouTube that we really like around here. It speaks about failure and the importance of trying. I try to have my people watch it once a year as a reminder that failure is a part of life. After the carefree season of summer, it takes a bit to get …
Hello again! In this series on Etiquette, we have explored table manners, introductions, true magic words and several systems of civility to help our kids and people to be confident in a variety of situations. (You can search etiquette at the top of the blog to find all the lessons.) This final lesson might just …
A total crowd pleaser! Fruit Kebabs drizzled with chocolate are perfect at your next potluck, family party, or a simple gathering celebrating the start of the Olympics! 🙂 Fruity, chocolate deliciousness!
The Summer Olympics are just around the corner! These Olympics in particular are even more anticipated as they were postponed, like so many other things, due to the pandemic. So, in anticipation of the games, I wanted to share with you some of the ways my family celebrates the Olympics!! I mean really, it is …
Did you know that the single biggest predictor of high academic achievement is reading to children? I LOVE reading to my kids. Getting close and cozy and exploring another world with them is so rewarding! It is equally as rewarding to see them pick up a book and not just to look at the pictures, …
Hello friends! Today’s lesson on etiquette will be 2-part. First we will examine the words we say and then let’s talk about a myriad of activities that are actually meant to be private. Teaching these rules of refinement to your kids and practicing them ourselves will truly create an environment in which creativity can flourish …
Bite size ways to conquer table etiquette! Practicing this at home helps increase confidence for all members of your family to handle the many different situations that surround sharing a meal.
If you are new around here, you may not know that my family loves to bake. Really, my husband loves to bake and has shared that love with our kids. If anyone mentions a new treat around Brian, chances are, he’ll try to bake it! We have done our best to give our kids the …
This time last year when everything was shut down due to the pandemic (are we tired of that phrase yet!?!) my kids were sorely disappointed that there was no parade. In our city, there’s a small parade in which kids can decorate their bikes and dress up to celebrate our country’s independence. We couldn’t gather …
Please: The word please is a funny word to me. I can easily hear the sound of toddlers in their small voices say “Peas” because they are learning to be polite, and then the insistent demanding “Peas!!!” they may exclaim feeling that word should attain them any privilege. Please is that magic word that acknowledges you are asking for something from another; Maybe time, an object, some kind of help or etc. I ask the kiddos in my class in what circumstances they use the word please, and we realize this is a word that can be used dozens of time each day! Use it liberally!
In our family we do not do an allowance. My kids know that they can ask me to do a job that is not normally on their list of chores and we will negotiate a price. Often these jobs consist of things that I’d like to get done, but don’t have the the bandwidth for. …
A quick and delicious way to use a less than perfect watermelon in a slushy sweet drink!
How would you react to walking into a room where your 2-year-old was sitting playing with the wet rocks that were at the bottom of your 9-year-old’s fish tank that is now sitting empty with a limp fish laying beside it? Apparently, I start screaming, “Get some water!!! The fish! The fish!!” While frantically searching …
“In family relationships, ‘love’ is really spelled ‘t-i-m-e,’ time. Taking time for each other is the key for harmony at home.” -Dieter F. Uchtdorf It is not new to suggest that spending time with your family is important, but how we spend time with them can make a real impact in their lives. Spending time …
Being completely honest, buying gifts for men is tricky. We have compiled many terrific ideas to celebrate the father’s in your life! 🙂
It’s summer!!! That means plenty of time for your kids to get lost in a good book!! On the hunt for your middle schooler’s next great reading adventure!?! Search no more! Here is a list of some of our very favorite books and authors!! Beyonders, Five Kingdoms, Dragon Watch, Fablehaven–all excellent series by Brandon Mull!! …
My husband, Brian, enjoys baking. He will often seek out a new recipe for well, really, any reason. About 14 years ago, some of our good friends had us over to their house and shared with us some amazing cookies. Since having these cookies, we have definitely baked other types of cookies, but have yet …
Today is the last day of school for us here in Colorado and that means lots of quality time with my people!!! This is an awesome thing, of course, but too much of an awesome thing is, well…too much! And while I love the change of pace of summer and love that my kids don’t …
Want a simple way to teach your children about natural consequences? This is it! Herein lies a straightforward method for encouraging good behavior! Our end goal is to teach our children to be good humans. Here is a simple and achievable method. You can do this!
In his Battle of the Books reading club, my 12-year-old (7th grader) had the opportunity to read a book about the Holocaust. Now, you have to know that I love to read. I love to read to my children, to myself, to a classroom. Books are definitely my favorite. Isaak also loves to read and …
Studies show that helping our children to learn daily responsibility sets them up for future success. Here’s a great way to incorporate this in your family!
Around 4 years ago I attended a mother and son event sponsored by my children’s elementary school. It was held at Dart Warz, a fun little arena set up to house nerf gun wars. This was my first time at that place and I thought it was great! My son was in 3rd grade at …
Hey cute Mama! I see you there trying to balance ALL the things. I see you trying to feed and nurture your kids, fit in a work out, help with class assignments, sign up for dozens of volunteer activities, organize your space, balance work and maybe even sleep sometimes too. When did your kiddo outgrow …
May we remember the true gift that it is to be mother’s and have these special people in our lives, and may we remember to include those that may not have the same experience!!
Good Luck & Happy Mother’s Day!
Life is a lot about connection. We are associated with people in so many ways: home, work, school and etc. However, there are only a few people who would really have your back in an emergency. You know who I am talking about! This is your tribe! These are the people who have seen you …
I’ve always been the type to just try to figure things out! When my oldest kiddo went to her first school dance, I helped order the boutonniere. I was pretty shocked at the cost for a boutonniere that was essentially just one little rose, baby’s breath, floral tape and a stick pin to attach it …
Food is definitely a love language around here. But more than the food, the preparation of that food is what hits the spot for my people! When I first married my husband, I had no idea he loved to bake. One day I mentioned that I hadn’t had crème brulee and then he made it …
Say what you will about 2020, but it Is the year that got us to decide to connect with our kids more meaningfully through this beautiful tradition, and for that, we are grateful!!
It was a few years ago, when my oldest two kiddos were around 8 & 10 and it seemed that the traditional Easter Egg Hunt was really geared toward toddlers and perhaps the super aggressive kid who could quickly collect the entire caboodle. Yeah, we all know a kid like that! I wanted something different! …
I want to teach my children to clean up and learn responsibility, but how can I do it when they are so young? I am SO glad that you asked!!! At about 18 months your little people are primed and ready to help out around the house!! Here is a list of 10 ways your …
This is pure deliciousness! Chocolaty richness with a buttery crunch of toffee. Truly so crazy good! We make it every Christmas for our extended family gathering and for whichever birthdays a kiddo may ask for this dessert! It makes a beautiful Easter dessert, Mother’s or Father’s Day or Happy Graduation or welcome home…you get the …
Here is a winning list of 10 amazing read aloud books for your elementary school kiddos. These are the ones you want to own in your library and to cuddle up with your kiddos to read.
This last weekend we went to Indianapolis for a Volleyball tournament. Thousands of people: parents, coaches, and volleyball players were all wearing masks and somewhat socially distanced while chasing their volleyball dreams. All too soon the weekend was over. Most games were won, but a vital game, while incredibly close, was lost. There was an …
Did you know apparently people give up on their New Year’s Resolution around January 19th. We make it on average a little less than 2 and 1/2 weeks. Sad. All those big amazing plans sabotaged. All that sports equipment sitting unused in the corner. This is an unnecessary tragedy! We can make it farther! Much …
This year has been incredible! Incredibly bizarre, unpredictable and still beautiful! Life takes crazy unexpected turns and we must adapt. Blessed are the flexible, for they won’t be bent out of shape.
Have you ever really thought about it? I mean, sat down to consider all the ways and reasons that you love your people? I mean, actually listed them? I have. Well, sort of. Starting on February 1 I began cutting out hearts and writing a love note to each of my kids–I have 6, so …
I love fresh salsa! With chips, eggs, tacos, burritos, whatever the vehicle, give me all the fresh salsa!! My good friend, Gina Ashby, gave me this recipe that is super easy and makes a ton to please a crowd, or to hold you over for a couple weeks! OR make it and put some in …
JK Rowling said, “I think it’s the books that you read when you’re young that live with you forever.” My 2 oldest kids are in Battle of the Books. If you haven’t heard of it, it’s an after-school club with a 3rd and 4th grade team and a 5th and 6th grade team. Each team …
It’s November! The month of cooler temperatures—in the northern hemisphere at least, the buzz of holiday preparations, and the time when many of us try to remember to be grateful. I don’t know about you, but I love a good quote about gratitude! “Gratitude turns what we have into enough.” -Unknown “The root of joy …
First let’s examine a bit of our disconnectedness. If you think you get the weight of our lack of connection…then skip ahead to the lists in bold below for a terrific way to connect! However, if you think a quick examination of where we place our attention all day might heighten your desire to connect …
Also known as: “The Rock and the Mint”–a 15 minute life lesson Gratitude is so closely related to joy! Have you noticed that? What you focus on grows! When we focus on our blessings, then it is easier to notice our abundance and that brings gratitude, joy and even generosity. All of us need a …
Or Indian Fry Bread Yumminess! Hi! Perhaps you wandered here from my scrumptious roll recipe! That is where we can find the recipe for the bread portion of this delicious dish! So when you are ready to make this divine yumminess, use the roll recipe. (There are a couple other party tricks you can do …
So these muffins are made about once a month at my house. We pretty much double the recipe so we make enough to share with neighbors and friends. They are incredibly easy, and the magic of making them in a mini muffin silicon pan helps them pop right out and that little size adds a …
Including the BEST Mother’s & Father’s Day gifts! Here’s a bit of a disclosure–I love to celebrate! I love to celebrate birthdays! Valentine’s day! Fridays! Thanksgiving! Summer! You name it–I love it! Are you one of my people? Do you love to celebrate too? I usually take care of most celebrations in my household, but …
Do you cherish a sweet love note? Mmmmm. I do! In every way! I actually just this morning came across a note written by my daughter from a couple years ago. Reading it again, filled my heart with joy! A kind and sincere note can buoy a person in amazing ways. These little love notes …
I love it when my kids are home for the summer! It’s our best chance to play. Honestly it is chaos of course. There are definitely more quarrels and messiness, but there is also an abundance laughter and new happy memories! Hooray for Summer! Here are some of our favorite ideas for day trips and …